An unexpected tragedy hit just as they were preparing to become parents.
Xiaoming, a well-known SGAG personality, recently spoke about his wife’s miscarriage during an episode of the meWATCH talk show Hear U Out.
The 34-year-old did not reveal many details, only mentioning that the loss was something entirely out of their hands and unlike anything he had experienced before.
“I didn’t know how to process the grief, and even now, I’m still learning to cope emotionally,” he shared.
Reflecting on the loss, Xiaoming recalled hearing the foetus’ heartbeat and how much it meant to them. “To us, it was already a life. It was our baby.”
In remembrance, Xiaoming tattooed the foetal electrocardiogram on his forearm, hoping to keep the memory alive. “I want it to be something I can remember forever,” he said, choking back tears. He also acknowledged his wife’s incredible strength, adding, “She’s stronger than I am.”
The influencer previously shared his personal story on Instagram, and the show’s host, Quan Yi Fong, noted that many followers offered their own experiences.
“Yes, they encouraged us not to lose hope. They told us that good things come to those who wait. Many went through long struggles to have children, and my wife and I find solace in their words,” Xiaoming said.